HOUSE PARTY RULES

General Rules

  1. Pushy Behavior It is NOT Tolerated. Every person involved has the absolute right to reject or disregard any requests. No means No and it should NEVER have to be said twice. Explanations are not required, so a simple “No, thank you” must be respected in every circumstance without exception.
  2. Ask Before Touching Seems obvious, but it has been repeatedly reported as an issue. This includes the social area on the main floor of the house and deck out back, but is more specifically applies to ongoing sexual acts in the Play Room. Just because someone is in the Play Room playing at the same time you are, it does NOT automatically mean you have permission to touch or perform sexual acts on another person. Reports of this rule being violated will result in a warning. 2nd violations will result in you not being invited to future parties.
  3. Safe Sex In every encounter, group members are advised and encouraged to use condoms. Each participant is fully responsible for their own actions and their own well-being. We will provide a modest supply of condoms for our guests, but it is still not a bad idea to bring your own, just to be on the safe side. Some people have allergies or sensitivities to latex, so please keep that in mind. We try to provide latex-free condoms as well, but don't use them unless you need to out of respect for those that need them.
  4. Video/Picture Taking It is unethical to take videos or pictures of others without their consent. Consent is required from all participants prior to encounters.
  5. Discretion
    6. The vast majority of us do not want what we do behind closed doors broadcast to our friends and family, so please always keep that in mind. Also, don’t kiss and tell and please do not speak of what others do or don't do; only speak of what you (and your partner) do yourselves.
  6. Smoking/Vaping We do not smoke, so we ask our guests who smoke/vape to do so outside on the back and to please clean up after yourselves.
  7. Drug Free Our house is and always will be a drug-free environment. Please respect that and DO NOT bring ANY kind of illegal drugs into our home or on the property. Any instance of this and you will be asked to leave immediately and will not be invited back to any future house party.
  8. BYOB Please bring your beverage of choice with you. We all know that having some alcohol sometimes helps us loosen up and be better able to enjoy ourselves, but please drink responsibly and help keep an eye out for each other.
  9. Food We generally provide some staples for our guests, but we do ask everyone to bring a side dish or snack to share with the rest of the group. We do need to keep our energy up after all!
  10. Open Nudity and Sexual Acts While nudity is allowed on the main floor of the house, overt sexual acts, other than kissing and touching/fondling, are prohibited on the main floor of the house. If you wish to engage in sexual acts, please take it downstairs. Also, please keep in mind to keep an eye on body parts around the food.
  11. Play Rooms For the pleasure of our guests during the party, we have the downstairs area of the house (the Family Room downstairs and the Game Room) set aside for sexual play as well as the hot tub and pool, when open. So please restrict sex play to those areas.
  12. Donations It should come as no surprise that putting on house parties comes at an expense for us, so if you wish to help us defray costs of putting on house parties, we will have a collection jar at each party, so feel free to help out as you can.